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Raising Girls Episodes

Things to tell, or tips for raising, your girls.
June 21, 2024

Dismantling Family Privilege // with Nicole Rodgers

In this episode, Carmelita welcomes Nicole from Family Story to discuss the concept of family privilege and the importance of broadening our understanding of what constitutes a family. Together, they explore the societal, cul...

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March 16, 2023

Grappling with Beauty & Objectification // with Valerie Monroe and De…

What woman hasn’t disliked part of her face at some point? My nose is too big. I don’t like my profile. My forehead is too big. I wish my lips were fuller. Val Monroe, former beauty editor for O, The …

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Feb. 22, 2023

How to Raise Resilient Kids // with Dr. Kate Lund

Resilience – we know we all want our kids to have it. But what is it really, and how do we foster it in our kids? In this episode of Know Them, Be Them, Raise Them, Host Carmelita Tiu chats …

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July 19, 2022

How to Interrupt: Manners, Assertiveness, and No Apologies (Encore) /…

(Encore of Episode 05) “I’m Speaking.” We all remember that magical, kick-ass Kamala Harris moment, right? We encourage our daughters to be assertive, share their stories, and speak up. But when we teach them that interrupti...

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July 12, 2022

Empower Girls With These 10 Phrases (Encore) // by Wendy Snyder

Ever wish you had a magic spell that would guarantee your daughter turns into a brave and confident woman? An “abracadabra” to ensure she grows up to be bold and powerful, in the best way? While sadly there’s no such …

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June 28, 2022

Sex, Gender, Expression, Orientation & Showing Up for Your Child's Jo…

Episode 42 is all about fundamental LGBTQ concepts, and ways we can support our kids and others who may be on their own journey, discovering who they are. Elaine Farris joins host Carmelita (Cat) Tiu and shares: What the defi...

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June 21, 2022

Vulnerable Connection, Coping, and 3 Q's to Ask Your Kids Daily // wi…

In Episode 41 of Know Them, Be Them, Raise Them , Cai Graham chats with host Carmelita (Cat) Tiu about connecting with our tweens and teens, and coping. Some highlights: The importance of being vulnerable in front of their ki...

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June 14, 2022

Self Harm: What It Is, Why It Happens & How to Respond // with Cai Gr…

Self-Harm and kids. What parent isn’t struck with anxiety when they think of their child contemplating self harm? What leads to self-harm becoming an option? (Warning: this episode discusses self-harm from an educational per...

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May 31, 2022

Sex Talk(s): How to Have Them and Overcome the Awkward // with Sarah …

Ok, who of us hasn’t cringed a little bit, thinking about "having the talk" with your kids? Why does this awkwardness exist, and can we make it less awkward for our kids, so there’s a healthier dialogue about sex and …

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May 24, 2022

Diet Culture (Pt 2) - Tough Truths, Tips & Takeaways // with Debbie S…

What woman hasn’t disliked part of her body, or all of her body, at some point in her life? That is a problem. Diet culture, thin ideals, and ever-changing and unattainable beauty standards – these are self-esteem sabotaging ...

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May 17, 2022

Defying Diet Culture & Making Peace With Your Body // with Debbie Sar…

What woman hasn’t disliked part of her body, or all of her body, at some point in her life? That is a problem. Diet culture, thin ideals, and ever-changing and unattainable beauty standards – these are self-esteem sabotaging ...

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May 10, 2022

Media Literacy & Questioning What We Consume // with Alicia Haywood

Alicia Haywood, Executive Director of iSpeakMedia, chats with host Carmelita Tiu and unpacks what media literacy is and explains how we can build media literate kids (it’s easier, in some ways, than you think)! She shares: Qu...

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May 3, 2022

Emotional Suppression & How to Create a Safe Space for Your Kids to O…

If you’re like me, you believe on some gut level that burying and ignoring your emotions isn’t healthy - and the research continues to back that. A study from the University of Texas found that when we avoid our emotions, …

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April 26, 2022

Sexual Assault: Creating a Dialogue + 7 Phrases to Say to Our Girls /…

April is sexual assault awareness month -- a reminder to acknowledge and support survivors, advocate for further awareness, and educate ourselves and our kids. While we know what sexual assault is on some visceral level, I wa...

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Feb. 8, 2022

6 Things to Tell Your Daughter At Valentine's Day // with Carmelita T…

Host Carmelita Tiu tells the story of the worst/best valentine she ever received, and shares the truths she wants to share with her daughters, especially around this time of year. Comments? Email her at knowthembethemraiseth...

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